Identity Liberalism
I missed Mark Lilla's NY Times op-ed calling for the end of identity liberalism when it ran back in November but recently encountered it referenced in another article.
"National politics in healthy periods is not about “difference,” it is about commonality. And it will be dominated by whoever best captures Americans’ imaginations about our shared destiny."
I think he's spot-on.
The day before the inauguration, "American Tune" was in my Spotify daily mix and has been echoing in my head ever since. It's one of my favorite songs and among a handful capable of reducing me to tears. It stuck me how hauntingly relevant it seems today.
(SoundCloud is only letting me include a preview, so I'm also posting the full lyrics).
Many’s the time I’ve been mistaken
And many times confused
Yes, and I’ve often felt forsaken
And certainly misused
Oh, but I’m all right, I’m all right
I’m just weary to my bones
Still, you don’t expect to be
Bright and bon vivant
So far away from home, so far away from home
I don’t know a soul who’s not been battered
I don’t have a friend who feels at ease
I don’t know a dream that’s not been shattered
Or driven to its knees
Oh, but it’s all right, it’s all right
For lived so well so long
Still, when I think of the road
We’re traveling on
I wonder what went wrong
I can’t help it, I wonder what’s gone wrong
And I dreamed I was dying
And I dreamed that my soul rose unexpectedly
And looking back down at me
Smiled reassuringly
And I dreamed I was flying
And high above my eyes could clearly see
The Statue of Liberty
Sailing away to sea
And I dreamed I was flying
Oh, we come on the ship they call the Mayflower
We come on the ship that sailed the moon
We come in the age’s most uncertain hour
And sing an American tune
Oh, it’s all right, it’s all right
It’s all right, it’s all right
You can’t be forever blessed
Still, tomorrow’s going to be another working day
And I’m trying to get some rest
That’s all I’m trying to get some rest
© 1973 Words and Music by Paul Simon
Inspiring and thoughtfully written piece by Jon Mooallem in last Sunday's New York Times Magazine about an unconventional hospice in San Francisco, its founder, and one of its more memorable residents. Here's one of my favorite excerpts:
"It wasn’t that Miller was suddenly enlightened; internally, he was in turmoil. But in retrospect, he credits himself with doing one thing right: He saw a good way to look at his situation and committed to faking that perspective, hoping that his genuine self might eventually catch up. Miller refused, for example, to let himself believe that his life was extra difficult now, only uniquely difficult, as all lives are. He resolved to think of his suffering as simply a “variation on a theme we all deal with — to be human is really hard,” he says. His life had never felt easy, even as a privileged, able-bodied suburban boy with two adoring parents, but he never felt entitled to any angst; he saw unhappiness as an illegitimate intrusion into the carefree reality he was supposed to inhabit. And don’t we all do that, he realized. Don’t we all treat suffering as a disruption to existence, instead of an inevitable part of it? He wondered what would happen if you could “reincorporate your version of reality, of normalcy, to accommodate suffering.” As a disabled person, he was getting all kinds of signals that he was different and separated from everyone else. But he worked hard to see himself as merely sitting somewhere on a continuum between the man on his deathbed and the woman who misplaced her car keys, to let his accident heighten his connectedness to others, instead of isolating him. This was the only way, he thought, to keep from hating his injuries and, by extension, himself."
Stewie
2007 - 2017
Gratitude
Friend and fellow Dashing Whippet, Lauren Joseph, wrote a thoughtful and eloquent piece on gratitude in the wake of the election. We're grateful to have Lauren and Steve on our team.
NYC - November 2016
Weekend trip to NYC last month to watch fellow Dashing Whippets race in the NYC Marathon. Outstanding performances by our women's team, which finished 2nd, and our men's team, which finished 4th.
The Berkshires - June 2016
Did a quick trip to the Berkshires in June to see Brian Wilson at Tanglewood.